(Note: each group member will, with the help of the therapist(s), develop more specific personal goals.)
1. To help members learn how to overcome their social anxiety and avoidance, and to increase their self-confidence, enjoyment and effectiveness during previously difficult situations.
2. To increase members' self-confidence and self-esteem (i.e. modify the core beliefs members have about themselves and others that contribute to their social anxiety).
3. To provide ongoing personal support, encouragement and guidance to each group member.
1. Each member makes a commitment to attend at least 18 of the 20 group sessions. Sessions will start and end on time. Absences and late-arrivals are disruptive both to individual members and to the group as a whole.
2. Members who are unable to attend a particular group session due to unavoidable circumstances are expected to inform the therapist of this by phone (not by e-mail) at least one hour in advance of the session. (If the therapist is not in, leave a detailed message by phone.) 24 hours notice is required for not attending a one-on-one session. Whenever possible, members are expected to inform the entire group one week in advance of any absences.
3. Members may not attend a session when under the influence of alcohol, marijuana or any other recreational, mind-altering drug. Members may be asked to leave a session if they are intoxicated or high on such a drug.
4. Worksheets and homework experiments are a core part of this therapy group. They help members extend the benefits of therapy well beyond the weekly sessions and into their world of everyday living. In joining the group, members commit to devoting at least two hours per week to working on experiments (ideally some every day), and about one hour per week to completing worksheets. Members who regularly do homework experiments and worksheets generally make much more progress than those who do not.
5. At each session, each member works together with the therapist to design homework experiments for the following week, and to review what has been learned from trying the past week's experiments. In between sessions, the most important thing is that each member make a sincere effort to carry out their homework experiments because that effort will provide a valuable learning experience. Whether or not an experiment goes as well as expected is less important than what they can learn from trying it out.
6. During all sessions, members will participate in designing, carrying out and discussing various in-group experiments aimed at practicing how to handle anxiety-provoking situations with greater comfort and confidence. Although members are encouraged to actively participate in such in-group experiments, no member shall be required to do so if a particular activity is too uncomfortable.
7. Members are expected to openly and honestly describe their thoughts and feelings within sessions. Hiding your true thoughts and feelings, or discussing them only outside of group meetings, will hinder you and the group from reaching your goals.
8. Group members are also expected to treat each of the other group members and therapist(s) with respect, and to not violate their rights. If you are ever uncertain how to openly and honestly describe your thoughts and feelings in a manner that is respectful to others, please consult with the therapist(s) for guidance.
9. Dating, romantic or sexual activity between members is not permitted until after the 20-session group has ended. However, group members are encouraged to socialize with each other and to do some homework experiments together.
10. All information discussed or revealed in the groupï¿½including the identities of the group membersï¿½shall be kept strictly confidential by each member, and by the therapist.
I, [print your full name] _________________________________, have carefully read and understand the group goals and norms described above. I commit myself to working toward these goals and abiding by these norms. I understand that I may be required by the therapist to leave the group if I repeatedly violate these norms.
Signature: ________________________________________________________________________ Date: _____/_____/_____
If you have any questions or comments,
please email Larry Cohen, LICSW,
with offices in Washington, DC.